Uzbekistan acts against illegal marriages

| 2021-02-19

what are divorce rules for husband & wife with children in uzbekistan? is there any jazaa money to be paid?

| 2019-08-01

The comments are so predictable: women protest against second wives, but men vote for them, covering it up by talking about protecting women's interests :)))

| 2019-05-14

Well, everybody is writing here that a married man can have an affair. But what about his first wife's feelings? Can he trample them underfoot so easily? Our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) advised men to marry a second, third, fourth [woman], but there was a reason for that. Widows had to be protected from going down the wrong path, children needed food, and there were many other similar aspects. But nowadays it's not like that. Younger girls are willing to be second wives because it's convenient - an [older] wife looks after the man (i.e. his cleanliness, etc.) but but they [younger ones] merely slavishly appease him. And then they give birth to one child and then wrap the man around her finger. As far as men go, they find themselves a side piece and after that don't care about their families since they are very occupied with their young girl. And then they say that's what the prophet told them to do. But this is in fact a plain and simple betrayal of one's wife to satisfy one's lust.

| 2019-01-08

I believe this is insanity. What if I don't want to register my marriage? I live just fine without it!!! I think this is wrong.

| 2018-12-29

if a woman is happy to be a second wife and the man can affor to look after more than one wife why not allowed??? pologmy is meant to protect woman of poverty and provide her with decent life.

| 2019-06-21

You forgot one more person: the first wife who didn't subscribe for that when she got married

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Perfect

I am delighted, and say thanks to our president. I fully support his decision, because I have a niece who has been tolerating betrayal by her husband for a year now. They have three kids turned into living orphans. He replaced his wife with a personal secretary. Apparently, his wife failed to satisfy him. And without getting divorced, he wants to follow nikokh, and maybe he already has.

There is a guy who serves in the hakimiyat in Fergana. He fools women, promising to marry them with nikakh. He also works on commission sending people to Haj. He was born in 1987 (give or take a year). Tall and bulky. His wife doesn't know [about that] and lives with [her] parents. He prefers women ten or more years older than he is, and lays hands on their property. I suppose that these kinds of people should be punished first.

I fully support the President's decision. [They] start two, sometimes three families... and don't think how are they going to feed their children. Sometimes eight-year-old children are hungry and have no clothes, and forced to work at marketplaces. Parents can't arm them with a decent education. [I feel] sorry for the children.

Finally, they are doing something about it. If a woman does not satisfy [a man] they should just get a divorce - why cause everyone so much pain (the first wife, the kids). It turns out men are so greedy... Before getting married, people should seriously think about whether everything is going to be all right. Marriages entered into to satisfy the needs of the parents are the ones that most often fall apart. Something needs to be done about that, because they get married young, but then they grow up and they realize that they do not suit each other.

Before, only men took risks, but if even imams are going to have to take responsibility... How many women won't be able to create a family now? Will they just remain unhappy, or forced to marry whatever man comes their way? "Observers hope to see the law enacted soon, as they consider polygamy a violation of women's rights"; they are not observers, but enemies of the people. Women voluntarily choose this kind of marriage because it is not different from monogamy, with both women and men having the same rights and responsibilities. Is it better in Russia: first a mistress, then a child, and the man just runs away? And with no responsibilities whatsoever. Or are they trying to limit the birth rate? Not every woman is going to decide to have a child outside of marriage. And even if she does, then she will not have more than one.

| 2019-08-01

What kind of marriage is that, if it's not legally recognised? Where are equal rights here? And what kind of family consists of three spouses?

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What should a divorced woman do with her body's physiological urges, or a man with a wife who does not fully satisfy his desires that will leave the family, divorce -- [the last part marked with dashes looks incomplete and illiterate in Russian] This leads to a surge in prostitution

I think that the woman should get to exercise this right. Specifically, the first wife. And the second marriage should be official. There are men unsatisfied by their wives, both morally and physically. And what does the man begin to do in this case? He starts looking for a woman on the side. And once he finds her, he leaves his wife. The abandoned wife can't come to terms with that and begins to act desperately. The father now has a new family and starts to forget about the old one, because the first wife he abandoned puts a lot of effort into achieving that. She doesn't let him see the kids, etc. But if the man was allowed to find a woman who could make up for what the first wife didn't have, everything would end up fine. The marriage would survive. The family would remain intact. And every one would be happy. Acts of perversion would be rare in the country. Instead of banning polygamy, it would be better to ban marriage that parents force upon their kids. And wife beating.